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When more is more; how saying “YES” makes your life richer: Meet Meaghan – 2 of 52 Phenomenal Women

©Amy Boyle Photography 2018
©Amy Boyle Photography 2018

Meet Meaghan:

One year, for my birthday, I experimented with saying “yes” to everything. It started as one of those wishes you make only to yourself as you blow out the candles. Commit to having a little more fun, doing a little more good, loving a little more. I found that I had a lot more “yes” in me when the next birthday rolled around, so I kept going. Truth be told, I was filling my buckets long before then, pouring myself into family, philanthropy, friends, work, working out, going out, and just…going. I live a very full life. More is more. More living, more loving, more giving.

I might not be able to say “why” if you ask, but I might say “why not?” I’ll have a story to tell you when I say “Yes!” to your invitation and we chat over cocktails. The next morning, my kids will give me more giggles when they say “Yes!” to sharing the dad joke you told me. Those happy kids will cheer me on in a regatta with my alumni crew team (row a half marathon on the Chicago River with the #NDames? Yes!) while my Superdad of a husband rewards their team spirit with a “Yes!” to ice cream. More sprinkles? Yes!

On the subject of sprinkles, yes, I apply the “more is more” philosophy there, too. Extra icing on the birthday cake my neighbor’s sweet boy asked me to bake for him. Extra mini M&Ms tumbling down the mountains of whipped cream on the Saturday pancakes.

I wish I had even more time to bake, to read, and to garden, but until that time magically squeezes itself into my days, I’ll enjoy every moment of my busy life, full of recipes to try, books to read, and seeds to plant.

I love this life of “Yes!” Is there even time for more baking, more making, more….”Yes!”…? You know the answer is “Yes!”

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©Amy Boyle Photography 2018

If you could do anything now, what would you do? Why?

I’d be a pastry chef. Taking time to craft something beautiful that brings others joy, encouraging people to stop and savor the moment…my life could use more of that. Couldn’t yours?  – Meaghan

©Amy Boyle Photography 2018
©Amy Boyle Photography 2018

Outdoor family travel Episode #4 – Traveling light.

Why leave home if you’re just taking your entire house/condo/apartment with you?

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     What did your packing list look like the last time you headed out to “get away from it all”?  Did you need an 18 foot moving truck, or could the entire lot qualify for carry on status?  I know, it’s hard to imagine leaving the countertop Cuisinart stand mixer behind for even a couple of hours, let alone a week.  We’ve all had that uneasy feeling pulling out of the driveway that something essential was left behind.  Or the iron plugged in.

     Fortunately there are some easy ways to pare down your adventure travel kit.  If you’re flying, consider taking the TSA’s suggestions seriously.  It’s a simple & effective way to avoid the urge to carry on the small axe or can of mace you thought you’d need at camp.  As we’ve found out not once, but three times, even a pocketknife can’t fly in the cabin.  They will mail it back to you for a small fee.  At least security is consistent.

     If getting publicly hassled by government agents isn’t enough, maybe saving a few bucks is a good incentive to lighten your load.  Most of those clever airlines have figured out ways to extract additional revenue from their customers.  For instance, charging extra for the privilege of entrusting our prized possessions to bar codes and baggage handlers.  No offense other guys, but it’s one of the reasons the Boyles fly Southwest when our plans call for schlepping camping gear halfway across the country by air.

     Or maybe you just want to see out the window of your vehicle as you hurtle down the highway.  We’ve done plenty of 18 hour drives in a fully loaded minivan with four kids to remember what that’s like.  There’s a fine line between using those suitcases on the seats to separate the little angels, and cramming them in like precious pottery in packing peanuts.  Believe it or not, a foldable playpen for the cabin/tent/hotel was one of those essentials when the kiddos were little that actually made the cut.  And while you might want to stow a passenger on the roof, even temporarily, that’s against the law.  Don’t do it.

     Lastly, some outdoor stuff is simply lighter and packs down smaller than others.  I know, you just got done reading Episode #3 warning of the dangers of succumbing to the recreational equipment arms race.  But let’s face it, that enormous quilt that you can barely roll up smaller than a Mini Cooper could be replaced by a modern high performance sleeping bag that packs down to the size of a pregnant grapefruit.  Now you can shove multiple things into one big bag and still stay under the baggage limit!

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     Next up: The trip itself.  Yes, even the hangry tantrums will become funny stories when they grow up.